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Old 01-05-2008, 07:06 AM
Recently I've been trying to say no sometimes, because somebody's actually told me that trying to please everyone all the time and never saying no, will ultimately please nobody else, and you especially end up feeling unsatisfied - and even depressed, actually.

You can't please everyone, and, I've been learning to try to tell people that I can't meet their needs rather than letting the stress and tension build up.
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