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Originally posted by ratc_dagger@Feb 28, 07:58 PM
wow i like that journey part of your description. i grew up in a household where everything was my fault and i was constantly yelled at for grades, attitude, my whole life. so my whole attitude towards life skyrocketed down into the pits.
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Same thing here. My mom hates me, and so she sics my younger siblings on me to bully me. Nothing I ever do is good enough for her, and it's brought me down all my life, leaving me with little confidence and no positive outlook. After a while, I just decided life is too sucky to make it worse. I realized I couldn't help what happened to me, but I certainly could help decide how it affected me. Bad things happen, but your life isn't bad unless you decide to let them be bad.
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it really is hard to be positive about everything b/c our world is just full of evil people and evil things. only a truly brave and courageous person could fall down but get up and try again.
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It is hard. It's very hard. I struggle nearly everyday, always at war with myself. I want to let things get to me, I want to be negative, I want to sulk, and I want to dwell on my negative things. It's only natural to feel that way but you have to be able to stop and convince your mind that although you want it, it isn't good for you.
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and accomplishing obstacles really do teach you lessons. very important lessons.
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Exactly, Rebecca. You got it, girlie. ^_^
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so now i know 3 things about you criss. you <3 cheese, you <3 band, and you're mary poppins in disguise!
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*gasps* You're so smart! Here, take a cookie! *throws a cookie* You forgot one, though. I <3 PMS as well.